Happy Soul Care and Soul Filling Sunday!!!! Time to care for the inner before the outer feels it!

 

HAPPY SOUL CARE AND SOUL FILLING SUNDAY!!!!!11

This morning I’ve started a bit slower because I needed it. Along with the Equinox and our temperature change here in the southern US, it was a bit of a busy week here. As I’m older now and all my kiddos are well and truly grown, I can do that sort of thing. Years ago I know from experience it just wasn’t that easy, even though I did at times make the time for me.

To put it another way, I needed to fill my tank. This personal tank is priceless to fill as it keeps me going just as yours keeps you going.

This weekend, like most, I’m not going anywhere special as I have a to do list that is a bit long. I’m sure you know that feeling. What I can and will do is take a bit of time to go back to the Smokey Mountains in my mind and remember as best I can the warmish air and the sounds and trees, birds and more. It may be that I may just sit outside in my yard which is filled with trees and birds (who like my bird feeders ;) ) I may do yard work which really needs done as I do a bit of wandering and pondering. It will fill my personal tank/cup in that way too.

Over the years I’ve mention this filling our tanks very often. At least once a month, LOL. It’s so important I keep doing it.

So what happens if we don’t re-energize ourselves and our personal tank/cup? At best you are irritable, cranky, go tired to exhausted, lose focus even more and concentration goes more than you would expect. You have no energy for extra things and basically after that point, your body starts to have more issues.

Now which came first the tired or the TIRED in the body? For many of us, after we get to the chronically tired state, it’s not enough to just have a nap once in a great while. We really need to take the us time, our time, for some extra TLC. Our body will need time off and out, in addition to higher nutrient foods. I know the trend now is protein but that’s not what I’m talking about as you well may know already. This is a very, VERY individual thing as our foods are part of our belief system on the same level as our sex lives and finances. It’s just that intricate for us.

Resting yourself before you get the stage of body really feeling it I prefer to discuss. After some points we may need assistance with the other and that’s not my gig other than Energy Therapy.

There is such a great need in our current society for us to find calming, soothing times in our lives. Vacations aren’t rest any more they are “Go, Go, GO marathons” for many of us. I know one of the “vacations” we took when my girls were little I needed a vacation from the vacation! Staycations I do love the idea of those. A few extra days to do what you need like clearing your home and resting are top 5 items in my book!

However you do it today, take time for you. Fill up your own wonderful cup no matter if or where you can go. Take time for YOU because you are the only one who can!

Just a little Sunday footnote for today.

Earlier today I had my pad and paper, made my list of “things to do” and promptly my higher connections, maybe my Angels doing a bit of steering, and all of me started cleaning my office which was a bit on the rough side. My home is small and I had let it become a bit of a clutter bug palace in here because I’ve been kind of like Aladdin’s Genie by Robin Williams, mentally I was here, here, here, here and oh yes here!

Focus…..ahhhhhhhh

Thankful for the higher connections because it is now feeling lighter and easier to deal with in here. I’ve fixed a clock that’s been broken for over a year. I’ve sorted through a vast array of papers too. SLOWLY the desk disaster has come clear and clean.

I sat here, doing something I’d not thought of doing today, but evidently it was much more needed than some of the things on my list. I listened to two wonderfully wise old women and teachers at a distance as I worked. Lunch of Gouda cheese and spinach sandwich with herbal yummy tea… relaxing and tidying all at the same time...

If this happens to you, don’t berate yourself for going off course. You are meant to do that thing even if your plans were something else. Sometimes when we make decisions on one side, our higher connection shifts gears so that we can do that thing or those things more easily.

Something to Sunday night ponder about ;)

Energy, Our Auric Colours and the Colors We Wear...just a little thereof

 

HAPPY THANKFUL THURSDAY <3

Last night I had a wonderful call from a client. She let me know some things I had told her were spot on and gave her a happy heart. Her call gave me a very happy heart too!

During the day I was so happy to receive not 1 but 2 dimes from my Dad on the other side. It wasn't a super hard day but it wasn't the easiest of ones either. He showed me he was there with Love...

Keep your energies (colors of the rainbows) higher over the next few days. We have the 9/11 anniversary this week which isn't always an easy few days. That energy will be imprinted for a long while to come.

Keeping your energy higher helps. Prayers, Meditations, good music, some other things you enjoy will help <3

Yesterday there was a glitch with the interwebs and I had to stop posting because of it. Today I want to go back over colourful things that can help our energy as well as mood. Having gone to a business gathering of sorts yesterday I noticed the people wearing really colourful clothing. Myself I was dressed in a bright turquoise sleeveless blouse and a navy blue pair of pants/trousers that were loose and airy. There were others in some colours. There was also a fair share of black standard business attire.

When I look at someone’s energy I can’t usually see it like I would see you walking into a room. It is more of a sensing the energy and the colours come through as a translation my mind does with the energy. This is how it works with my energy therapy that I do. I sense the colors and the energy center as well as the body’s colours. If I see a gray or dark brown in a person’s tissues/energy it is a sign of significant potential physical issues.

Many years ago I was fascinated (still am) that the daughter of my insurance agent could see the colours in my energy field! She was a sweet little girl and she kept trying to get her mom’s attention. She was trying to ask her mum why I had the colours around me that I do.

I knew nothing of auric energy and colours at the time. My head was too busy with leaving an abusive and difficult marriage. It wasn’t ready for understanding colours. A few years later it was and I was surprised when I looked up the little girls answer when I had asked her years back what colours she was seeing around me.

It’s fascinating to ponder how colours are energy and we can react and act with the colours we wear. What about the ones we love around us? Have you ever asked yourself what colours you don’t like and then asked yourself the why of it? Have you ever thought about what caused you to love or dislike some shade or colour that you may have in a new home or as a gift from someone?

Ponder it a bit, see what comes through. You may surprise even a little bit of you!

Magical Monday - Grief and Allowing

 Before anything else, even though I'm a professional medium and have been for 20 years now, all too well I know grief on a personal basis and a professional one.  Over the last many years I've had my parents, all of my brothers, aunts, uncles as well as cousins to cross over....and fur babies too.  In 2015 one brother crossed and less than ten months later another one crossed over, then two of my fur babies just a few months after that.  It was hard for me then so this is why I write abut this topic even though it doesn't feel like a "Magical" one.  

This comes from my heart and being to you in hopes it may help now or in the future.  

Blessings.....Ada

HAPPY MAGICAL MONDAY!!!!!!!

Yes, grief doesn’t sound Magical. When you are deeply in it, it sure doesn’t feel very magical. It hurts so very deeply and that certainly doesn’t feel magical.

What it does though IS magical in a way. Grief is a process or processes that help us to learn to relive and revive ourselves after a loss. It is a way of how we learn to do things again without that person in our lives any more. Grief gives us an outlet that helps us with our adjusting to life afterward. It’s a natural and normal process or processes that we, and all sentient beings go through.

This year on the media I watched a mother whale carry her dead calf for months because her heartache was so deep. Her pod stayed with her, guarding her and knowing to keep her safe. Personally I’ve watched birds, cats, dogs, and other animals grieve their young. It’s so natural most beings who are sentient do these processes.

Perhaps you’ve had your fur baby or feathered friend grieve their partner or friend? What did they do? I’ve seen also where fur people have played with ‘air’ as it looked but I could feel my fur baby in our home from the other side.

The day after Baby BW passed away I was still a mess. It was when I got into the shower and sat down in it crying that I felt the heavy paws he had had running from one end of our rig to the other! I also felt the back of the bed area go up and down. Heidiweeness hissed like she always did when he would do that! From all that ruckus I knew he was back and even though an accident took him, he came back to let me know he was OK. From time to time I see him out of the corner of my eye, thankfully.

We humans grieve our jobs, homes, relationships too. It can take us years to work through the processes of these times. Sometimes we become so lost because other losses happen in conjunction with the initial loss. I know this all too well from personal experiences.

Those events have redirected me in so many ways.

Sometimes we lose friends after a passing of spouse or partner. There are those that don’t know how to act or react when there is a loss. It hurt when our work mates and friends left me by the side lines. That was another kind of grief to add to the processes I was already going through. Remember it’s not “you” as the reason they do this. Sometimes there are a lot of doors that close in close succession so that new chapters of your life can open more fully.

Grieve it and do it well. This way you can get on with your life as it unfolds.

Today I do believe in throwing our all into grieving and allowing someone to do so. Too many times I’ve heard of people having to go back to work less than a week from a loss. WE NEED TIME to go through our grief and cannot rubber stamp it over and done. In centuries past we took months and sometimes years for us and our society to work through the process. Until the 1600’s professional mourners were hired in many cases more often than not. This process can take years for certain losses and being gentle and good to ourselves is one of the best ways we can work through it.

I’m going to add this here as my last tidbit for the day.

Your grief is as individual as your finger prints. A wise lady told me that a lot of years ago.

Your grieving times will be different for each passing. Some will continue for ages, others not as long.

There’s not just one way to grieve.

You cannot avoid grief without it causing you internal difficulties in your energy and body.

Find one or two friends or family members you can share things with as best as you can. Let their listening ears and open arms hold you steady when the winds of grief howl within you.

Allow yourself the time you need even as you start your new schedule and more in this new part of your life.

Your Loved Ones Are Thinking of You Too!

 

HAPPY MAGICAL MEDIUMSHIP MONDAY!!!!!!!

Remember your Loved Ones are really just a thought away

I often tell my clients that whenever you are thinking of your loved one, they are thinking of you.

My reason for this is because this is part of how they communicate with us.

Losing someone is never an easy gig. There are a lot of factors into each and every loss we have. Just so there are easier times that we connect without really knowing and harder times too. Grief and sadness are often two emotional reasons bound together that don’t let us feel/sense/see their side of this.

So often their communication with us is very gentle. It’s almost as if there was a tiny wind or movement that we can barely detect in our thoughts about them… It can feel deeper and more precious when their old memories come around.

One of our biggest issues is we’ve been taught they cannot communicate. It’s almost as if you have to be some special person to have that little snippet of closeness with them. You can have your family or loved ones thinking about you just as much as anyone like me.

This is including signs too. We all need them, including me. There fore if you have a wonderful memory pop up as you’re doing something, it’s quite possible and probable that they are thinking of that memory too at that time!

A Little about Energy and Music and adding good vibes

 

HAPPY INTUITIVE TOOLS TUESDAY!!!!!

This week I’m wanting to show some things on the energy of music for helping us in our lives. Not just as a relaxing point or a dancing and exercise point (those are wonderful btw!). This sound and musical energy to also use in helping us to mitigate some of the energy we’ve held onto or packed away not wanting to “deal with it” kind of thing.

What does it mean that “everything is energy?” In basic physical science we learned the solid, liquid and gas version of this, maybe as far back as 8^th or 9^th year/grade. But what about the energy particles that are part of us, the mind, soul, spirit and body? What about their states when our “biography becomes our biology?”

The energy of our worries, fears, anxiety, anger, frustrations, jealousies, loves, joys, calmness, peacefulness and more become our biology. The energy of these emotions (and emotional energy is STRONG energy) layers in our energy, emotional and then physical bodies. Clearing out the final layer, our body is only a part of it. Sound and music, as well as other therapies, can help to relieve and even release things before and even after there are issues in our tissues.

We, you or I, can clear the issues and the tissues of so very much… Music and sound can help in that. Music is meant to lift us and I believe, clear us and help us heal from many things. Remember if it can clear our homes, it can clear us and our self and souls too!

The late Dr. Masaru Emoto wrote a book that was years ahead of its time. Just as he was years ahead of his time in ideas and methodologies. IF we look deeply at what vibration does to water, which was shown in his last publication, we can see how vibrational energy affects our every day self as the total package. The water we are, up to 75%, will translate itself into those forms. No wonder we need more gentle to ourselves.

When I was 14 I was introduced to the world of verbal abuse. The downgrading on so many levels because of someone else’s inner turmoil, pain and distress. It was a shock, a pure absolute shock and has taken me years to work through so much of those few years I spent in that abusive life. Unfortunately for these relations I went to live with, this was their norm, their better than they had it life from the past.

Be that as it may I had a lot of unlearning, clearing and coming to terms with from almost the day I left their residence with two small boxes and what money I had been able to squirrel away. I left like a thief in the night because I was stealing myself back to eventually becoming me again. That was just the beginning.

Those energies, which some days I still actively clear one more layer, left imprints. They were as good or better than had they been pounded into a piece of metal. Most mornings I listen to classical, jazz or what is now oldies from the 60’s, 70’s, and later LOL! There’s more from other eras too and those are often later. They help me focus and work just as I paint to music.

Listening to music, and more such as singing bowls, special clearing tunes and just old fashioned sounds of nature have helped me. I have no doubt about that. With setting intentions, we can work and use music as one more tool in our intuitive tool box. There are hundreds of ways to listen to healing sounds that can help you. Find what works for you and see how you can go with intentions set and a happier hopeful heart.

Restarting Blogging and other things with the New Moon and Mercury Retrograde Energy

 HAPPY SUNDAY EVERYONE!!!!!

Since it IS Mercury Retrograde time, it's a renew, redo and restart time.  So I'm restarting my blog again.  

The end of last year was a very difficult one what with looking for a home for me and the fur babies as well as being under a deadline and difficulties with the previous landlady due to her situation it left me more than tired and drained.  Other things happened that I will admit still hurt my heart and I had to take time for those things as well.  

Add to that working and moving pretty much everything I owned myself didn't leave a lot of time for blogging or even thinking at times.  Getting the fur babies settled and me somewhat settled takes time.  The cold came fast last winter and in an old farm house, getting us insulated was also a priority. Some things I had to set aside.  BTW I'm still looking through a few boxes of things! 

Now I've had a chance to rest, I've been doing readings again for a few months as well as my other work.  

At the beginning of the year I listened to my Guides and Angels that reducing my fee for readings was needed because so very many were feeling the economic crunch of current times.  Indeed many of us are working more than one thing.  

As sensitive souls we can be overwhelmed by so much happening around us as well as in our lives.  Taking time for us to heal, regroup and release is vital for us to function after difficult events.  This is what I've done here.  I'm not going to be blogging daily like I had been.  

That being said I will be setting things here that are what I sense more needed in today's current climate like my FB (Facebook and Instagram posts) on Music and sound which I'll add below.  Please feel free to follow me on those platforms and once I have my Youtube channel back to running within the next few weeks there too.  

Just as I started my move I celebrated my 61st birthday, Christmas came shortly thereafter and as my friend Catherine said to me a while ago "Life be lifin'..." and she's so right there.  So from October to now there's been nothing here but space and space is what I needed.  I hope you'll take a look through things to see if it's something you need. 

Today on my Facebook page I discussed music and its help with our energy.  Oh I know sometimes we need quiet, but I also know music can shift our energies into better places too.  That's why I started listening to music again.  Music I grew up with as well as soothing music for me.  

I'll post that tomorrow.  For today this is enough.  

Take time for yourself and soul whenever you can, only you can do this for you.... 

Wishing you a best and blessed day! 

HAPPY MEDIUMSHIP MYTHS MONDAY!!!!!!!

 

HAPPY MEDIUMSHIP MONDAY!!!!

Warning I’m only half caffeinated as I write this! Hopefully spirit folks will help me catch the typos more than the auto-correct!  LOL!!!!

To me, Mediumship is listening to/sensing/feeling then translating and relaying energy from one energy source (a Spirit Person or Animal) to the human to whom I’m reading for at that time. In other words, I’m a Spirit energy receiving antennae. LOL!

There are a lot of myths about Mediums and we’re going to have fun with some of them today!

I’ll put this as number 1, NO we don’t wear pointy hats unless it’s a holiday…. LOL!!! Some of us can be bitchy that is true, but that doesn’t always mean we’re witchy LOL!!!

The Number 2 for today (although I think this is #1 because of where I live) is those of us that are Mediums do not believe in God/Creator/Divine/Spirit. Often times when I get the question “Do you believe in God?” it’s from someone who has NO CLUE as to me, or most intuitives for that matter. My reply is always polite and with an explanation. That is part of why I’m here, but good grief this myth is so old that you can actually blame early male church understandings for this sort of thing.

God to us may not be what He/She is to you, but we work with LOVE and that makes all the difference!

Myth #3 for today is “You have to be in the same room to get a good reading.” Oh honey, you don’t even have to be in the same continent with some of us! There are some Mediums that prefer good old face to face and that’s great. Some of us, like myself, do readings over the web or in person. Energy is energy and a fun point of those on the other side is they can be with you AND with me communicating in their own way! Weird but Wonderful!

The 4^th Myth for today is……… drum roll please…… A Psychic or a Medium will know EVERYTHING about you when you go for a reading. Oh Please, NO, NO and one more NO! We only receive the information that you NEED and/or that those on the other side need to give. There is NO way we can know everything about you and no way we would want to know everything about you!

This isn’t a myth but it’s a frequent question, but it’s a kind of funny thing. I actually have been asked if I keep your Spirit People… No I don’t. They get to go home with you!!!!!!!