HAPPY INTUITIVE TOOLS TUESDAY!!!
Today is an overview of “Oracle Abuse” as it’s called in this field. Oracle abuse can be from a lot of different overuses of anything that has a predictive nature. It can also be from those who are calling on Spirit communication far too much.
How does someone overuse an oracle?
How does someone overuse Mediumship?
You may be asking these questions…
I’m laughing as I think of it as using a Ouija board but it’s got track marks where you want the answers you want!
It’s overly using any tool, be it person or item, trying to get the answers you want instead of what is coming through. This is something that I started experiencing even before I hung my shingle out the door so to speak.
I was still in training and THIS was one of my lessons.
Here’s a hint, if your oracle cards or tarot cards are worn out on only certain cards, you might need to change out and LISTEN. Their answer isn’t going to change.
The most often reason why this happens in a more psychic reading. A person’s “love” for someone and is often a clue to me that they should run like “Forest Gump” in these circumstances.
You know we’ve all had this one person we’re so intent on. That dream come true by words as hollow as a Pixie stick after Halloween. Yes that “ONE LOVE” that either stays like a stain on grannie’s curtains you just cannot get ‘em out….. or that one that leaves faster than chocolate melts in a Georgia hot spell!
Those are the life lesson ones that I can say all day long “Not for long” or “No, this isn’t going to work out well, just stay on a friends basis.” They often go from Psychic to Psychic for confirmation that this will work and that costs a bundle! Oh it sometimes slips that they have seen others on this point.
I’ll let you in on a little secret here, I don’t go through a service to schedule folks so I can eliminate this as part of the issues with some readings.
There was another time someone just “had” to have a reading with me because I was so well recommended. They didn’t get the answers they wanted “like the other psychics” they later claimed. Their thorn in the side was the ex and the ex’s new fiance. “Were they really going to get married? Were they going to move to another town? Were they really so happy?” They didn’t care on their family’s health and medical issues, a child needing them, but the focus was on the ex.
This person was angry with me because the answers I gave were straight forward and NOT what they wanted to hear. This person was very ugly with me towards the end of the call and I had to hang up as I wasn’t going to be abused.
It doesn’t make a difference what deck you use, what tool you work with, if Spirit is saying NO, then it’s “NO.” It’s not going to change because you to to 67 different psychics. What will is your pocket book!
You wouldn’t think mediumship would have this issue. It does! There have been a few folks to contact me for sessions who were making the rounds with a few of us because their loved one had passed. But it really wasn’t about their loved one being on the other side sadly. It was because they themselves didn’t feel loved after their husband or wife had crossed.
They wanted to make sure they were still loved and whatever else by this person on the other side. A “case” of you can never fill the cups of others, only your own cup.
When I was learning I didn’t charge for readings initially. During this short time I had one person who showed me how even mediumship could be used to the point of “Oracle Abuse.”
Initially I thought I was the only person who was reading for her. This one person in particular was told repeatedly by myself and a couple of others in my friends circle at the time that there would be silence soon if this person didn’t stop “needing” as session. I had learned about the others fairly late but as I was learning, this was part of the lessons. It was really late one night, almost midnight, I remember. My phone was on quiet and beside my bed because my daughters were at university. The phone showed this person’s number and I ignored the call and went back to sleep.
In the morning with my coffee I listened to her voicemail. She was ugly, mean and it was like the reaction you might get not giving someone their fix in her voicemail. After I calmed down I called her that day. Laying down the law I told her she would not have another reading by me again. There was no reason for that abuse on any message and we were through.
Being a reader and having rules for my work helps me and helps others too. This is not to be mean although some may perceive it as so. Oracle abuse doesn’t help someone, it actually hurts the one wanting the readings.
It doesn’t help a person to grow soul wise. Their self esteem isn’t helped because they are leaning on the words of others.
It often hurts their finances and a home life.
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