Happy Intuitive Tools Tuesday - Shield (your energy) and Shine (some good energy) for the Holidays

 

HAPPY INTUITIVE TOOLS TUESDAY!!!!

During the Holidays it’s often difficult for sensitives and especially empaths. Why is it that way? Well have you ever been to an area and felt Love, Joy, Peace or an area that feels heavy, rough, sad? That’s your clairsentience or empathy working for you!

Let's add people worried on more levels than we want to think about but need to perk our cranial cavities on for a bit.

The overwhelm many empaths feel during the holidays is NOT theirs, but every point of surroundings. Stores are loaded. Parents in disaster zones feel bereft because they are surviving day to day let alone for High Holy Days. People are upset by prices. There's more too and we know it.

Just like a wool coat picks up fur through static electricity, so does and unprepared intuitive person pick up others emotional stuff. Even from far away if it is a loved one.

How do you plan to take care of your own energy this year? Perk on that for a while and then make your Energy Plan for the Season!

I have a little secret to share with you........

You know it but maybe you haven't really thought about it.......

You send energy as well as receive it.....

Let one of those points be to radiate good vibes instead of taking up so much from others. The more we radiate the good, loving and happy energy, the more we can shift the energy around us. So why not use this super wonderful part to send more PEACE as often as we can….

starting now

Let's keep that going for a while

Can't hurt, It WILL help

Believe me, I know how hard it can be to do this. I’ve had very rough years whereby I was alone, cold, internally lost and more. Just start a little bit at a time. No one is asking you to be “The Great Christmas Glow Worm” (yes you read that right because for some reason my daughters’ glow worms from Christmas years ago popped into my head!). Find a little way to start, push yourself a little bit.

We all have had difficulties in this life.

One of the points that can help you with your daily feelings and more is shielding or energy self care. You do yourself the best of favours in finding yourself a few different ways that work for you. This way you can change them up if you feel the desire for change in a consistent practice.

There’s not time like the present to start because the presence of some of the energies are a bit much right about now. It will become more so as the Holidays come together this year. This year the height of the holidays come together and therefore the energies will be more. We also have two new moons in December and as Mercury Rx goes direct on the same day as the Full Moon. Wonderful but intense energies as we go through the month you see.

Keep the shielding up. Research what works for you. Shine with a big of peaceful cheer whenever you can and things can work a bit more Magic <3

HAPPY MAGICAL Monday and More

 

HAPPY MAGICAL MONDAY!!!!!!!

Sometimes life knocks us more than a few times. We start to close ourselves off to the wonders of life. I know that I personally have done this. The survival mode after going through a lot of rough stuff. Many of us have this happen.

This time of year is truly Magical. The High Holy Days are upon us and this Magic we can invite into our lives and join with the ribbons of Joy.

Time to Be Open to the Good and Wonderful Magic around <3 <3

Just as a quick caveat, please be careful with whom you share your magic. Scrooge and Grinch can be hiding out in the most unlikely of people. Just be aware that it IS NOT YOU, but the Cranky Twins that may be visiting those whom you care for. It is Mercury after all and communications can go snafu really quickly.

That being said literally open yourself to the Wonderful Magic of The Season.

You can stand in your bedroom and spread out your arms with a Magical Affirmation. You can take a moment as you leave for work and do the same thing. You can sit at a stop light and let the red and green remind you of Christmas Magic lurking in the most interesting places, including yourself.

One of my favourite Christmas songs is “Santa Baby” by the late and wonderful, Eartha Kitt. It was one of the first Christmas songs I sang along with when Michael and I met. One year I said to him (after he’d crossed) “You know I’ve not heard that song all season!” as I was about to drive home. Not two minutes later, ‘Santa Baby’ by Eartha Kitt was playing on my radio. Oh my!

Magical things can happen this time of year just as much at other times. This time of year though, with the condensing of so many High Holy Days (what we call holidays now) where so many hearts are a bit more open usually, we feel it more. As a collective, we tend to feel it a bit more.

I’ll tell you a little something. A couple of years ago my dear friends gifted me with a phonograph player. I’ve not really used it much in the three years I’ve had it. The pain I’d had from years of losses was not letting me listen to my records. A while back I decided that it’s time to celebrate more and honour that way. This year I’ve put my phonograph player in pride of place rather than on the shelf. I’ve made sure to place the speakers more prominently too. The Christmas records are about to come out for the first time in a decade. I’m so, so happy I can play these now.

The other things about the Magic are do what wonderful things make you happy. If you love playing your guitar, piano or even tuba with Christmas songs, as long as you’re not disturbing others, play on! If you want to hear something repeatedly, well, that’s what the web can do. If you want to donate an hour or two somewhere in a hospital or nursing home, Do that.

Remember the Magic can start with us <3

Happy Soulful and Selfcare Sunday!!!

 

HAPPY SOULFUL AND SELF CARE SUNDAY!!!!!

This is a big priority for us during the holidays and especially after a tumultuous November. Not just here in the states but world wide there has been much afoot.

This is a huge reason for starting with this New Moon Sunday a bit more self care.

Most of us have some sort of family things happening. That can and usually does bring us some kind of stresses. Then there’s the Holidays and their preparations. Kids in school, Finals, parties, Christmas holidays off, and even potential graduations. That’s just to name a few. I didn’t even get into the foods. OMGosh the foods.

So we can see where a bit of personal TLC is the highlight for today.

This is the time that could really help you into the new year because with work and family gatherings, clearing your energy is paramount. Think about it this way. What would happen if everyone at a family gathering didn’t take off their coat but ADDED extra coats, scarves and hats. It would be pretty weird and overwhelming right? Well, that’s kind of what we more sensitive folks do when we are at gatherings this time of year. We take a little of Dad’s and Uncle Joe’s stuff, then Mom, Sis and Aunt Marge’s cray cray energies…. And we go home feeling like we need a 3 month nap…. I don’t wonder why because I know it’s the energies around you.

Anyone out there who is a bit empathic (clairsentient) is going to pick up stuff and we empaths are the mediators of that stuff. BUT we are not supposed to keep it. It’s not ours, we can shed it and off it can go. Here’s what I mean.

Let’s just say your brother and you aren’t seeing things on the same page. You both get irritated, but YOU feel like it’s something you’re holding onto even after apologies are made. Empaths will hold onto that shit like it’s a prize at the lotto. We’re built in cleaners even if we don’t know why, how or what about it. It’s how we are built.

So we CLEAR our energy and our homes energy often this time of year. Sometimes emotional residue persists like critter fur on a wool coat. You get a lovely black or grey coat wool coat out and what do you find 30 minutes later. The critter fur has basted itself to your coat as if you have gone through a furry dust storm without even leaving the house. Of course in my home fur is called Critter Glitter. However you want to get rid of that emotional residue so find ways that are easy and simple for you to do it before you get in the car, on the train or whatever before you get home.

This is something I need to remind myself of and as I type I’m REALLY grateful I’m not working retail this year! The last couple of years I’ve worked retail in an art center mostly on weekends. Now, no need to come home on Saturday afternoons feeling like I need a 3 hour nap! THAT TIRED FEELING is other people’s “emotional fluff” attaching to your aura!

No matter what parties, work situations or familial gatherings, your energy picks up other energies and needs a good cleaning. It can be great fun and you still need a bit of TLC for yourself in clearing your energy.

Grief, Signs and Holiday Celebrations Just a Few Notes

 

HAPPY THANKSGIVING AND SIGNS FROM OUR LOVED ONES!!!!!!!!
As you go about your holidays here in the states, remember they are going to be with you. Signs can be everywhere and any thing!!!!!

The very first year without my Dad there, the year after he passed, was very tumultuous. If there were signs (other than his wonderful dream visitation) I cannot remember. The rawness of someone’s passing can keep us from being able to see, feel, sense, or hear their signs to us.

Thanksgiving Day here in the states and for those expats who celebrate abroad may be a difficult holiday for you. It may also be a way to celebrate the Loving Person no longer able to be at anyone’s talbe. We do our best to face it during the holidays, but it's never ever easy.

If you are facing grief from the loss of a loved one, the loss of home or job, it's OK to feel how you are feeling at any given moment.

Sometimes we find the ways to remember them with jokes and laughter. Sometimes it’s fond memories of the silly and hilarious times.

From readings I’ve heard Other Side Members tell me of many things. One lady told me of her forgetting to turn on the oven for their dinner. She said “The Bird was Late that year!” with laughter. Then there was the time an aunt told of how she showed up unexpectedly and being a bit on the cranky side was amazed at how good the food was. That’s when she apologized to her nephew’s wife, the sitter. Then there was the time that this lady’s dad was the joker of the family and especially at the table!
There are a lot of ways we can remember our friends, family and furry loved ones – most especially at the holidays.

It’s also time where we could use a little extra patience. Not everyone grieves the same way and it can be hard on us if it appears others aren't feeling the loss too. One key is to acknowledge that you're going to feel and grieve your way and someone else will do the same their way.

I remember after Daddy died my mother’s relations, especially the female ones took to getting things decorated and more for the Christmas time. While I was so surprised, it also made me a little mad too. Uncle, I’m sure by direction of Aunt Eva, gave us a huge tree for the living room. Dad’s had been a smaller tree for a table so that we had more room. Little finishing touches women in that part of the family did and I felt so out of sorts. I know they did it largely for me, however, I was mostly feeling so blank and just going through the motions of things.

It’s OK if you feel that way too.

When my Michael died, I had decorated the tree and put it in the lounge area of our home. He’d crossed over roughly a week before Christmas. The almost 12 months of anticipatory grief had helped me with working through much that came to pass. The snows were heavier that year (and in East Tennessee snow means no go) so my daughters and I talked on the phone and stayed snugged at our respective homes. I made myself and my fur babies a wonderful meal and rested. After nearly a year of being a sole care giver, I needed it too!

It's OK to accept an invitation for a meal and if you don't feel like it, that's OK too. If you need space to work with or not work with things, that’s fine.

Know that you need to take care of you mind, body and spirit if you are going through this most difficult of times in your life

Holiday Signs from our Loved ones!

 

HAPPY WEIRDING WEDNESDAY!!!

Weirding is an old world term for Magical and I wanted the alliteration for today, Wednesday. Sadly the Thesaurus I use had weirding and magical almost at the very end under the term Religious. How quickly things have changed as this book was printed before zip codes were in line, I will give it its due for the era it was printed.

Magical – Weirding Wednesday it is <3

The Magical Wonderful ways our Loved Ones in Spirit communicate to us during Holidays <3

They can and do try to get through so often during our earthly celebrations. During readings I’ve often heard of their antics to get your attention.

Things like:

Having their favourite song(s) play on every station you tune to…

Little things of theirs showing up in drawers you open for holiday times….

One of my favourites was a lady on the other side upset they wouldn’t use her good china bowl so she made sure the other one was dirty for the table “somehow” it wouldn’t come out!

The thing to remember with signs is they are there most of the time as just a little "Hello from Heaven." They aren't meant to scare you or concern you on anything.

They just want let you know they are celebrating TOO!

Our Loved Ones on the other side really do just want to say “I love you too!” as the holidays come around!
If you have a sign that is a little surprising or even upsetting, just take a moment and BREATHE.

A really good example of this kind of sign is someone knowing that they put a particular family holiday piece in one drawer and without anyone else being around subsequently found it when they were trying to set the table. That’s a little freaky I will admit. But you can have things pop up from time to time with their help.

That would and has made me feel like I was kind of on a “Candid Camera” episode but hey, they do make things interesting.

HAPPY MAGICAL MEDIUMSHIP MONDAY - Holiday Communications

 

HAPPY MAGICAL MEDIUMSHIP MONDAY <3 <3 <3

Today and this week will be starters for how our loved ones who have crossed over are during the holidays.

First however I would like to say that today starts the fullness of Mercury Rx. For those of you on this page, look for family issues to be coming on full tilt. Just in time for those here in the states to have Thanksgiving! You can’t make this stuff up folks!

Thankfully just ten days before Christmas Mercury goes direct. We just have a little shadow energy to deal with from there. That will last until almost the new year.

This morning early on I had a bit of a weepy icky time because of holidays, family and my feelings on a few matters. You may experience some things like this too. Again, you can’t make this stuff up. Thankfully Mercury shows us what we need to work on and clear as best we can each and every time.

One of the wonderful things about those Holiday Times is that although we feel the loss of their physical being so very much, often they are being hilarious from the other side.

A few examples are:

Making all the lights on just one side of the tree not light up

hiding their favourite recipe just after you've found it (had that happen!)

Their photo keeps tilting one way or the other no matter how many times you tilt it back

Their favourite song plays over, and over, and over again no matter what station you go to!

Today and these coming weeks I too will be focusing on signs from my loved ones. Even though I’m a medium that doesn’t mean I’m having a conversation with my family as if they were here right with me still. It’s easier for them in signs and synchronicities I know. This is often how it works for me too.

Recently I turned 60 and as the baby of the family, having all my sibs on the other side makes things a bit more interesting and difficult at times. We weren’t close knit, however those calls every few months were a wonderful staple for me the years that I had them. One brother and I had recently been reunited before his passing. To this day I’m so very grateful for that.

Today was a good day for introspection - Happy Frequency Friday!

 

HAPPY FREQUENCY FRIDAY!!!!!

This week has been about raising our energy as well as taking joy from the world of the mystical and mundane.

Our Holiday Seasons are fast approaching. With this we can raise the energies even more than usually. It’s time to do more than just “Sending love and light” we must become more of that Love and send Light, Loving and Compassionate energy more as we go through our days. The more we can shed the “us versus them” energy that has shown itself fully these last few years, the easier and better our transitions to flowing better. Not just for us personally but for so many around our world.

Today marks the last day I'm in my 50's. My birthday is always an introspective time for me because so much ended and started just the day after 46 years ago.
What we give out comes back to us. Today as I threw away some rubbish in front of the store I visited, a friends who works there saw me. He gave me a big smile and hug. I didn't know he was there, all I was doing was seeing things on the ground that needed to be in the bin. But the hug was nice as was his cheer.
My 50's were as difficult but in different ways as my teen years after dad passed. Listening to some astrologers the last few weeks has shown me that some of this at least was for many Sag's and people with strong Sag in their charts. Not everyone granted, but for some.
One of my favourite things is what is now termed "thrifting" and I do love our Habitat restore and a few others. There's nothing I really need, but I do love it when ideas flow in as I walk around looking at the tools, materials and bits all around.

I still enjoy working with my hands, designing and making things. Places with interesting eclectic things rejuvenate my creativity. Getting my hands dirty doesn’t bother me anymore. I’m fortunate to know that it’s just a part of who I am and what I can do.

So what started out as a day with a little melancholy, is now a lovely albeit cool day here. I can now sit here smiling as I watch outside wind blowing and inside kitties napping.
Today was a great day for a little introspection and energy shifts.