HAPPY SOULFUL & SOUL CARE SUNDAY <3
A bit of soul care this week is regular clearing of energy. But not necessarily the way you may think. We’re bringing in all sorts of things to our homes. We’re sending out all sorts of things.
Our time tables may aggravate us like mine did yesterday morning for me. Oh I was in a right state yesterday morning. True, part of it was from outside of me and was just one of those things I feel at times. You may feel them too.
When I realized it, I sat myself down and “felt” where it was coming from. Part of it was me, but most of it was from outside and not clear relation. Just angry energy passing through the ethers.
After that and a bit of shielding I was good. Even with driving around the post office four times I was able to joke with the lovely clerk when it was my turn in line. We laughed about my carrying packing tape in my handbag. Sent things off and then we laughed at prices and paying the retirement fees ahead of time. Our chat was fun and we both giggled and laughed making the others laugh too!
Take good care of your energy right now is basically the key I’m working for here.
Take the time you need for you. Do things you enjoy too!
If you’re going through your the season with a loved one on the other side, take things at your own pace. It’s not an easy process. Holidays change as our loved ones change and that includes them no longer being there for visits or at the table. There’s no one size fits all for grieving a loved one during the holidays or at any other time.
From my own experiences do things the way that feels best for you. If you only want to do one thing or go to one person’s home, that’s great. If you want to be closer to family and friends and go out to see them, that’s great too!
One of my favourite things from a client is that they put a special stocking out for their loved ones who have crossed. Then as the month progresses when they have a happy thought or memory of that person they write it down and put it in the stocking. Then during their time together on the holiday, they take turns digging into the stocking and reading the memory or thought. Sometimes they laugh, sometimes there’s a tear, but this is how they share their experience.
For those of us who have had more difficult familial relationships, it can be a time where we are reminded of why things are a bit tense. I had relations like that and stayed away for a multitude of reasons. Also, you don’t have to send them cards, gifts or anything else if they really have a detrimental affect on your energy. Remember it’s your day too and worrying about what “they” will say doesn’t help you. Being concerned with what they think only robs you of your time to enjoy this season of seasons.
Take it from someone who’s family put the “fun” in dysfunctional according to the first psychic I met. Another one, a few years later, looked at my aura, whistled and said to my face “Wow, you’ve been through some shit!” and as I write that I’m laughing to myself. How right they were even though at the time I wouldn’t really have couched it that way.
Honouring does mean acknowledging, it does not mean kowtowing into submission or into a relationship that doesn’t help you. It means you acknowledge and a kind of remembrance.
Sad as it is to say, having had my adopted mum to cross over this year, my only thing is I’m relieved she’s not in pain any longer. Her actions and behaviours even in her latter days and weeks, years even showed much of her true nature. I’m just happy she’s no longer in pain or having such trouble breathing even with O2.
Take care of you and your energy.
Be with those that bring you joy and/or peacefulness.
If you do like I do and wear fun elf hats or dress a bit more festive all is well with that. It’s fun for me to have kids that are fussy looking at m. They often get wide eyed when I tell them I’ve got Santa on Speed dial :D
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