HAPPY MAGICAL MEDIUMSHIP MONDAY!!! It's All Energy!!!!!!!

 

HAPPY MAGICAL MEDIUMSHIP MONDAY!!!!!!!

Mediumship is only part of what I do in life. Yet it’s the title and moniker that I often put on because it’s easier for people in general to understand.

What exactly is a “Medium?” What do Mediums do and how?

Well, I’m not a small, not a large…. I’m a Medium, LOL!

Just for the record, I’ve set this page up for those of you who want to learn things about mediumship, energy, and a whole lot more. Yes, I do readings as well as energy clearings. There are a lot of ways of contact me for my services. Here however is for those who want to understand the phenomenon of one’s intuition and a whole lot more.

There’s so much more to this world and Mediumship is just a small portion of it.

It’s all Energy.

People in the Spirit world are ENERGY. What exact form of energy is superfluous to this today. They are energy and Mediums connect with and understand (with training overall) their energy.

The best way I’ve ever read or heard about the connection of energy between the medium, sitter and spirit is that we Mediums turn our energy up and the Spirit person brings their energy down a bit. We connect and what to me is still Magic happens.

What makes that connection possible? The strongest and most amazing of energies…. LOVE. There is the energy that makes so much possible. LOVE. They LOVE you in a deep and broad way that isn’t easily definable from a human standpoint. The love we share in this earthly life goes on and is the HOW and WHY this is possible…. That’s Magic!

If you haven’t had success in a reading or signs or anything we deem the usual ADC. It’s not because they don’t love you. There are many reasons why it may take a while. Our own grief and hurt are the biggest ones. Often they want to wait until we’ve gone through the biggest part of all of it in order to be able to understand what they are relaying. There are times they have things they want to work out in the Spirit world too!

Keep the faith because they will come through at some point. Remember, it’s all Love...

HAPPY INTUITIVE TOOLS TUESDAY!!! - Watch how you use that oracle!!!!!

 

HAPPY INTUITIVE TOOLS TUESDAY!!!

Today is an overview of “Oracle Abuse” as it’s called in this field. Oracle abuse can be from a lot of different overuses of anything that has a predictive nature. It can also be from those who are calling on Spirit communication far too much.

How does someone overuse an oracle?

How does someone overuse Mediumship?

You may be asking these questions…

I’m laughing as I think of it as using a Ouija board but it’s got track marks where you want the answers you want!

It’s overly using any tool, be it person or item, trying to get the answers you want instead of what is coming through. This is something that I started experiencing even before I hung my shingle out the door so to speak.

I was still in training and THIS was one of my lessons.

Here’s a hint, if your oracle cards or tarot cards are worn out on only certain cards, you might need to change out and LISTEN. Their answer isn’t going to change.

The most often reason why this happens in a more psychic reading. A person’s “love” for someone and is often a clue to me that they should run like “Forest Gump” in these circumstances.

You know we’ve all had this one person we’re so intent on. That dream come true by words as hollow as a Pixie stick after Halloween. Yes that “ONE LOVE” that either stays like a stain on grannie’s curtains you just cannot get ‘em out….. or that one that leaves faster than chocolate melts in a Georgia hot spell!

Those are the life lesson ones that I can say all day long “Not for long” or “No, this isn’t going to work out well, just stay on a friends basis.” They often go from Psychic to Psychic for confirmation that this will work and that costs a bundle! Oh it sometimes slips that they have seen others on this point.

I’ll let you in on a little secret here, I don’t go through a service to schedule folks so I can eliminate this as part of the issues with some readings.

There was another time someone just “had” to have a reading with me because I was so well recommended. They didn’t get the answers they wanted “like the other psychics” they later claimed. Their thorn in the side was the ex and the ex’s new fiance. “Were they really going to get married? Were they going to move to another town? Were they really so happy?” They didn’t care on their family’s health and medical issues, a child needing them, but the focus was on the ex.

This person was angry with me because the answers I gave were straight forward and NOT what they wanted to hear. This person was very ugly with me towards the end of the call and I had to hang up as I wasn’t going to be abused.

It doesn’t make a difference what deck you use, what tool you work with, if Spirit is saying NO, then it’s “NO.” It’s not going to change because you to to 67 different psychics. What will is your pocket book!

You wouldn’t think mediumship would have this issue. It does! There have been a few folks to contact me for sessions who were making the rounds with a few of us because their loved one had passed. But it really wasn’t about their loved one being on the other side sadly. It was because they themselves didn’t feel loved after their husband or wife had crossed.

They wanted to make sure they were still loved and whatever else by this person on the other side. A “case” of you can never fill the cups of others, only your own cup.

When I was learning I didn’t charge for readings initially. During this short time I had one person who showed me how even mediumship could be used to the point of “Oracle Abuse.”

Initially I thought I was the only person who was reading for her. This one person in particular was told repeatedly by myself and a couple of others in my friends circle at the time that there would be silence soon if this person didn’t stop “needing” as session. I had learned about the others fairly late but as I was learning, this was part of the lessons. It was really late one night, almost midnight, I remember. My phone was on quiet and beside my bed because my daughters were at university. The phone showed this person’s number and I ignored the call and went back to sleep.

In the morning with my coffee I listened to her voicemail. She was ugly, mean and it was like the reaction you might get not giving someone their fix in her voicemail. After I calmed down I called her that day. Laying down the law I told her she would not have another reading by me again. There was no reason for that abuse on any message and we were through.

Being a reader and having rules for my work helps me and helps others too. This is not to be mean although some may perceive it as so. Oracle abuse doesn’t help someone, it actually hurts the one wanting the readings.

It doesn’t help a person to grow soul wise. Their self esteem isn’t helped because they are leaning on the words of others.

It often hurts their finances and a home life.

HAPPY THOUGHT FILLING THURSDAY!!! _ Before the Full Moon

 

*** Over the next week I will be bringing forward more that I've written over the past weeks since my absence.  With everything going on in my life, my energy has been so low at times.  A full plate is an understatement.  Very soon this chapter will move onto the next and things will be a bit easier.  Thank you all for your patience, the few notes of caring and for continuing reading here.  

HAPPY THINKING ABOUT THINGS THURSDAY!!!!

You and I are FEELING the affects of the roller-coasters in our world. That will affect our energies and, as for me today, focusing is a little “off” to put it mildly.

This morning I’m taking a little longer to do the necessary with regard to grounding and centering myself because all of this kind of energy is hampering clearer thought and sensing abilities. Remember we give off as well as take in energy. For clearer thoughts we need to stabilize our energy.

You are your foremost energy tool as I keep saying. That tool is going to give off energy AND pick up what others are emitting. That’s why I say sometimes jokingly we empaths are sponges and we have to clear ourselves and not pick up too much!

Emotions are often symbolized as water. I like this analogy because if water is stationary it might be frozen or a swamp. For a human or other animal on this planet, that’s not good for any part of the being. If we allow a gentle flowing of emotional energy that is the best. Floods of emotional energy are like floods in rivers and streams, they can reset the course by being destructive and eroding. Sometimes all these states are necessary at different times, BUT, we need the calmer balance the vast majority of the time.

Thinking of calmer balance, in two to three days we have Full Moon in Libra. Libra is the great balancer. Those scales are for many things. We’re still under Venus Rx, Mercury’s Rx finished on Monday past, however, we’re in the shadow period for a while still. Doing your best to balance things a bit more could be vital for your daily activities.

Currently, we are almost all experiencing heavier loads in many ways. You have yours and I have mine kind of thing but they are heavier than what you might consider “usual.” I know one family who has parents on both sides to have sudden health crises. Another fellow I know has a sibling that won’t be here for the holidays in November & December. There’s a friend who has had her husband to pass all of a sudden.

Then there are the points some are feeling of finances, relationships, home and hearth as well as more. The loads of many are very heavy now.

These things affect our thoughts as well as feelings. The two are inseparable for most of us. An underlying current of fear in human energies isn’t helping. That is composed from more than I can physically write in this small area. You aren’t alone feeling it though.

Remember we are not alone, even in times where it feels like it.

The other day it was so bad for me with regard to house, home, patient care, and more that I felt like smoking for the first time in YEARS. It was then that I knew it was bad. That’s when I told my friend/now patient I was getting out to the store for a while. I sat in the car park (parking lot) and listened to classical music for 10 minutes before going into the store.

If you find yourself with difficult thoughts and feelings, remember you can change them around. Call a friend. Walk if you can. Find music from when you were young that will help. I showed someone the other day how my enjoying classical music while I’m driving helps me to bring my energy into a better zone. They thought I was nuts. When I put on a station that had older 70’s and 80’s music they were more content. It’s just a matter of choice. What works for you, works for you!

GET TIME FOR YOU. This clears your energy. It can clear your head. I personally don’t give a rat’s backside if you do this in an odd place, just do it. Your thoughts and feelings will be elated you did! Just 10 minutes a day can help. With everything that’s happening in my life, I’m taking an hour or a little more daily. It helps me get centered and sorted as I call it. Give it a try or add more time if you need it. Keep notes on how it works and you may well be happily surprised!

HAPPY THURSDAY AND HAPPY SPRING!!! Vision Board time!!!!!

 

HAPPY SPRING!!!!!!!!! HAPPY EQUINOX AND BLESSINGS ON THE EQUINOX!!!!!!!!!

NOW would be a great time (and by now I mean in the next week or so) to put together your vision board if you've not done it so far this year! It's also a good time to make an addendum to it for clarity!!!!!!!!!

I know I’m going to be getting onto that a bit more today myself. This has not been an easy few days in my world and definitely not for the lady and her hubby. I can’t do anything further for them than what I’m doing but I can make my choices and go forward. Helping myself with a NEW vision board is really a good start.

First though I will clean my home up considerably. As I’m going to be moving soon, getting more things in order is also a necessity.

Do vision boards work? Yes they do!

Years ago I did a vision board for my “new love” and he had wanted to go to live in a cooler climate or so he claimed. I put on it fun things and snow, lots of f’ing snow. I moved back to my home area in a 36 foot RV…..and waited for him, and waited...and no, he didn’t show… But I did get the snow!!!!! Record levels of snow fell and record cold too!

Two things from this. You cannot make a vision board that will make someone do something. Even if they say they do want it, sometimes it’s just their “dream” and they cannot and will not make the steps. The second thing is watch what you put on it. You will get a fair portion of it! After 72 inches of snow and numerous blizzards that year, I’ve had enough snow! LOL!!!

Before you start any little bit of modern magic, make sure your intentions are clear and simple. Saying “I want to help people” is so vague and you might just get a load of stuff you don’t want to go through! Be more specific, “I want to help people who are seniors or single mums or older ladies or gents or kids” find where, who and how by asking yourself specifics.

So, someone is going to ask, “But it’s Mercury Rx!??? How can this be a good time?” LOTS of things happen during Mercury rx. We cannot act like “Chicken Little” when these phases hit. It’s a time for redoing, so redo your vision boards around your home! It’s a time of releasing, so release what is not working and put your heart into what is next!

To me the more positive, loving, compassionate and proactive vision boards we have in our world now, the absolute better for all of us <3
Remember, make sure to put happy feelings into each and every thing you put on your board or boards! <3 <3

Send me a picture!!!!!!!!!!!!

HAPPY SOUL CARE SUNDAY!!!! Help with this week's energy and you!

 

HAPPY SOUL CARE SUNDAY!!!!

Today we’re going to ease into the day. Stateside this is the first of the F’ing “Spring Ahead” and some of us our springs don’t jump that fast any more!

Fortunately I still have the good old fashioned clocks that don’t just pickup the time like a giant hiccup! My old fashioned apple clock above my desk let’s me know this is really an hour earlier. I’m remembering that older tune “Time keeps on slippin’….” by the Steve Miller Band. We get to ride with it …. fly like that eagle…

Relax we’re going to take it good and slow today.

We’re going to ease into today, and as much as we can the rest of this week. The reason is really clear, there’s a LOT of harsh, heavy and difficult energy that we are dealing with currently. It truly IS a global phenomenon. The dominoes are in action and falling as I type this.

Add to that energy a Lunar Eclipse, Mercury Rx, Venus Rx, a truly beautiful Full Moon on March 14^th. The energy uptick is happening even now. We’re going to face this well.

Some of the interesting points for me so far have been:

Vivid dreaming, in colour, full on and very much a review of things to let go of in life!

Organization for the day going out the f’ing window, LOL,

A few glitches in documents being saved

Emotional Energy waves better than surfing at Maui waves...oy

Having to redo important work things over, and over, and over (it was water related too!)

Take things slowly for the next week is the best I can tell you. It’s going to be out of sorts at times. What we’re feeling and seeing on a global level is an upheaval of exceptional proportions. It is NOT magically going to go away. We have to work with our own personal energy to help ourselves through it. Things are changing intensely and we’re going to have to ride most of this out.

****Just as a note to everyone. There are events in our lives that are so strongly imprinted on the fabric of space and time that to me it’s like the print of an old fashioned book, you can feel the typeset in the pages from its pressing. These times are like that. Had they not been I and many others wouldn’t have been able to sense their intensity albeit not the events themselves.

Please keep from berating yourself (known as beating yourself up!) over matters that are currently out of your control. Self care means care and talking badly to yourself helps no one.

Remember this is probably going to be an intense week and fast moving so please, please, please do take care of you from all facets. You will be grateful you did!

HAPPY SENSITIVES SATURDAY!!!! Discerning and clearing out emotional energy you're picking up

 

HAPPY SENSITIVES SATURDAY!!!!

As I promised the other day I want to help you understand a little more on how your abilities may be showing you the energy patterns or more, and more subtly than you may realize. Also you can fix some/most of it very easily and quickly once you know!

We’re starting on a morning that thankfully for me the weather is better than it has been. My fur kids are talking to the birds in the feeders outside their windows. The winds are low at the moment and from my seat here, I can see buds forming on the trees.

For the human “weather” it’s a mixed bag of all sorts. People are afraid and on many different levels.

To quote one of my favourite books “I must not fear. Fear is the mind killer. It is the little death that brings on total obliteration. I must face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”*** This is one way to react and act towards our fears, but we must catch them first. Usually it’s not with a Gom jabbar at our neck. Thankfully.

No that’s not here. In our world fear can show up in sensitives by many different routes. It can trigger your own fears specific to you. You may start to over prepare for them, get irritable, or feel depressed or even a bit hopeless.

Once you realize that this is not you, you can fix it easily. Usually discernment for empaths takes the vast majority of emotions coming from others away rapidly. Discernment is realizing that it’s just not coming from you, but from an exterior source. This morning I felt a wave of “cranky energy” when I took a minute and realized it was not me or my emotions but from somewhere/someone outside of myself it rapidly faded away.

Here I’m going to stand tall and strong on my soap box and say – Everyone has a bit of empathy. You ALL have some form of intuitive ability sequence. Whereas you may feel first, then hear or see and onward OR you may see first and then feel and then hear...… It just is how it works for you. Soapbox down……

Basically you need to self appraise your emotional energy now more than ever. There are going to be things you see, or hear, that are triggers and only you can clear it up. Your intuition can show up in your emotions or how your body feels. If you feel tired, like I have lately, it may well be a reflection of how your body is working with the really harsh energy. It’s dense, thick like molasses and not easy to deal with overall. Add to this the waves of energy (remember energy waves travel in ripples like drops in water I feel) so that you can be picking up far before you consciously know what is happening.

It makes no difference HOW you put yourself into action with your discernment process. Most of the time these are simple mental actions you can do from anywhere and at any time. Just keep practicing.

“Repetition is the Mother of skill!”

HAPPY THANKFUL THURSDAY!!! Being thankful where we are in the now

 

HAPPY THANKFUL THURSDAY!!!

This morning (and last night I may add) I came across a quote that Spirit must have sent as a reminder. To paraphrase here:

Remember that your work/job is the dream of others.

Remember that your car is the dream for some.

Remember that your home is the dream of many.

Remember that everything from your walking through the door to getting up in the morning is the dream of many…….

My Guides and Angels have been very insistent that I start our day with this as a reminder to be Thankful of the here and now we have .

It’s not always easy to do. Many of you feel/sense what the energies are even if you are not actively aware of it moment to moment. Later this weekend we will go into this more.

This morning I set aside a time to offer my thanks for so much in my life. It may not seem like a lot to many, but to me there are many wonderful points.

Shortly, in a few weeks, I will need to move. Where am I going? I don’t know. Like I said yesterday I have to “keep the faith” but I’m also adding my thanks for my time here. Things haven’t always been easy here, however, I’ve enjoyed the possums, birds and more. My fur babies and I have had shelter here and I’ve been able to turn it into a reasonably comfortable flat/apartment for us. I’m just thankful I’ve had this time here.

Do you remember the card “Accepting What Is?” That card is a very central point to being thankful for what IS in our lives. Not only can we find our direction from where we start, but we can also know how far we have come as we go through our journey!